Monday, August 25, 2008
lies & white lies
diff opinion between gals & guys
while at samui having company team building event, i've a short chat (or debate?) with my colleagues on the above subject.
our conclusion :
majority gals will tell their bf/hubby what they do, meet-up with who (even those sensitive subject like ex-bf, ex... )
interestingly most guys will support their girlfriend & won't have any issue as she already with you, why we guys want to suspect?
all gals will make a big hoo-haa if they know their boyfriend meet-up with their ex-gf, etc... even they're clean (or even friends).
frankly speaking, we guys till now still don't have any answers for this.
gals hate guys telling lies
BUT we guys also hate people maligned them, especially those who we love dearly or those whom we trust dearly
majority guys hate telling lies, what's the point?
do you gain anything in telling lies?
experiences from buddies, friends & even myself telling me that in real life, theory is theory, practical is really practicals
mountain can be made from a small little mole
if the gals keep suspecting their guys, the trust is no longer there anymore
in order for a relationship (or a basic family) to work, mutual trust & proper communication must be in place
pathetically, how many of us value it (mutual trust & communications)?
end-up, a guy who don't know what is lie keep telling lies... is pretty normal
they call it white lies
i do hope... it won't happen to me
if my r/s need to survive on white lies, i'll give-up for the sake of my other half well being
life short.. so value the good things together
sMurFy at ... [ 11:02 PM ]
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