Friday, June 27, 2008
character & attitude
somehow i'd wonder, is a person's character & attitude are in-born or just some circumstances change due to childhood upbringing?
a good nature kids, growing up.. might not be the same as he/she be, surprise?
or shall i say, people change also because of power & status.
it does happen to my siblings, also happens to one of my buddy's sibling
we indeed pretty disappointed
when they need guidance, help, etc.. we rendered unconditionally to them, help them without asking for returns.
BUT when they can earn their living, have some money... huh... is a totally different story.
they try to calculate with you, argue with you, etc...
sigh... sometimes, it doesn't pay to be nice (even yr family members)
pathetic?
i don't really think so actually.
all my life, i try to be nice, try to please peoples around me, my parents, my siblings, my girlfriend, helping my colleagues, etc...
BUT when i need help, who there to help?
sometimes (quite surprisingly), friends are more reliable than those you think they can help you, pathetic?
guess time for me to have a total change
whether a change for my attitude or character, if it can helps
i'll live for myself rather than pleasing those ungrateful shits around me
sMurFy at ... [ 8:46 PM ]
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