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Sunday, July 02, 2006
Love Shouldn't Hurt
i bought newpaper n 8days, somehow got this pamplet from MCYS
Ministry of Community Development, Youth and Sports
interesting, yet educating on the title above...
Intimidation <> Love
Sex <> Love
Abuse <> Love
Control <> Care
Love = Respect
What is A Healthy Relationship?
While abuse is about controlling and having power over the other person, love is about caring for and supporting each other. These are indicators of a healthy relationship:
- able to find healthy ways to work through differences and disagreements
- able to make decisions together
- able to trust each other and share honest feelings freely
- feel comfortable, respected and at ease
- feel loved by being listened to and supported
- feel safe and secure
- respect each other's feelings and opinions, even if one may disagree
sMurFy at ... [ 1:13 AM ]

Ah Kok aka PicaKok aka Pica aka ah mun tou
A small pathetic overwork & underpaid IT fella in Axxxxxx
Currently XX yr old in this world (unable to reveal, confidential lar)
Plays badminton & sharpen my photography skills over the weekend...
Loves $$$
Loves bread and instant noodles...but BREAD is the best, pure & YUMMY
Hates idiots
Hates hypocrites